Confidence
Confidence is never arrogant, cocky, or boisterous. Genuine confidence is quiet and real. It’s the stuff born of knowledge, coupled with experience in the real world. It’s what you convey to clients, coworkers, or any important group when you know what you’re talking about – and you truly care.
It’s difficult to display confidence when the world offers up plenty of doubt. There’s always another service offering, a cheaper solution, or a shinier object being offered to attract attention. But that’s when your own confidence matters most. Speak up, but always be respectful.
Do what you do for the right reasons, based upon sound knowledge, preparation and commitment to your purpose. Your message will transmit clearly, in spite of all the white noise around you. When you have the courage of your convictions, plus the proof to back it up, you can display confidence in the most stressful situations. Have a trusted group around you who complement you and hold you accountable.
Confidence requires testing yourself before others do. Know what you know, because you’ve challenged yourself, not because someone else has tested you. It’s not about blind belief; it’s about validation though experience.
Enjoy the Journey — with Confidence!
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Tamala Dennis
9 years agoMr. Dellecker,
This was very positive and inspiring. It was also encouraging. We need to be reminded sometimes.
So…….
Thank you,
Tamala
Greg Hodges
9 years agoThis was just the jolt I needed this morning Bill. This is very applicable to a situation we are dealing with right now and your words give me comfort. Thank you
Chris Kenny
9 years agoSpot on! Love it
John Spence
9 years agoBill, this is a wonderful post. Confidence built on competence, diligent preparation and true humility – with strong desire to be of service to others is one of the most powerful ways to build trust and respect. While one should have great confidence in their areas of expertise, they must balance it with the understanding of incompetence in many other areas of their life, thereby always remaining a student. People very much want to work with people who have confidence, but never arrogance. Your blog is so incredibly spot on – thank you so much for your wonderful insights – John
Bill
9 years agoThank you, John, for contributing your wisdom to the conversation. I have learned so much from you.
BKM
9 years agoBill – very timely post, thank you! You’re right, sometimes there is a LOT of white noise out there. But, when competence and confidence overlap and clear out the white noise, amazing things happen.
jim sivils
9 years agoThanks for the post I needed it after Tuesdays news.
Perfect timing Mr. Bill