Civility Enhances Performance

November 15, 2012
There are various means to an end. Some methods may achieve the desired result, but leave damage along the way. Others get there without producing collateral damage, while contributing to potentially greater results over the long term. The difference is civility.

The Oxford English Dictionary defines civility simply as “politeness; act of politeness.” The active application of civility in daily life requires more than polite acts and good manners, however; it depends upon genuine awareness of others, based upon respect. An effort to first understand the perspective of others leads to restraint, reflection and consideration in our interactions. (I wrote about this in another in another recent post, “Conversations that Matter”.)

Robert Pippin, American Philosopher and Professor at the University of Chicago, describes civility this way:

“Being civil to one another is much more active and positive a good than mere politeness or courtesy, but like many other important goods, such as generosity, gratitude, or solidarity, it is not the sort of thing that can be “demanded” as a matter of duty, like a moral entitlement.”

Ultimately, our actions define us, but our words describe us. Choose both carefully and you’ll discover that civility enhances performance.

3 Comments

  • […] related expression of civility is gracious, polite and necessary for societies to function. Civility Enhances Performance because it conveys both understanding and acceptance. When it appears as the true manifestation of […]

  • Great post. Many people think of civility as a need only in political contexts but you rightly point out its pervasive importance in a life of excellence.

  • Thank you, Tom, for joining the conversation! We need Civility now more than ever….

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