Resilience

March 17, 2020

It’s a powerful trait to exhibit in these uneasy times.  Resilience is the emotional elasticity that comes in quite handy when you’re being stretched in multiple directions, sometimes to the point of breaking.  It enables you to snap back into shape and continue making progress; in fact, the energy created can propel you forward.

Resilience is about more than adapting.  While changing shape and modifying past practices is a crucial survival skill, the ability to channel that energy into something new and progressive is the hallmark of the resilient person.

Resilience is also different than recovering. When we suffer trauma, whether physical, emotional or both, the first order of business is to heal.  That process can leave us with scars, both seen and unseen, which are equally real.  It’s when that which doesn’t kill us makes us stronger, however, we become better versions of ourselves.  Resilience makes us more.

Of course there is another force that eternally battles with Resilience.  That force is Fear, also known as “The Resistance” (see Stephen Pressfield’s work) or our primal “Lizard Brain” (described courtesy of Seth Godin).  Whatever you call it and however you experience it, that force can paralyze us and prevent progress; it can also drag us into dark and scary places.  It has the potential to vanquish Resilience, but only if we allow it room in our minds to do so.

The Human Spirit is one of Resilience, where people, communities and countries face harmful forces, but then defeat them.  Resilience is a force for good and an energy source for fueling progress.  We are better together, because Resilience is also a force multiplier.

Vigilance is necessary for Resilience to emerge. And, when it does, there is no stopping it.

Tempus Maximize!

4 Comments

  • Ben Boyd

    5 years ago

    Bill,

    Thank you for these inspiring thoughts in uncertain times. Folks like me who take our cues from leaders like you are strengthened by such encouragement.

    An author who wrote wisdom literature a couple of thousand years ago addressed a group who were under much stress with this encouragement, “And now abide faith, hope, love, but the greatest of these is love.” I am inspired by your thoughts of the human spirit being one of resilience. I think many of our heroes from history have possessed a faith towards a better future, a hope towards a brighter outcome, & practiced love for those around them in the process of leaning towards faith & hope!

    • Bill_Dellecker

      5 years ago

      I am grateful, Ben, for your comments and thank you for joining the conversation.

  • Ken Thomas

    5 years ago

    NIce message Bill! Thanks

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